©Mss Didi* ~ PartyDomme.comall rights reservedThe articles in the menu above and listed on this page are basics for an understanding of My Philosophy of The Fetish Lifestyle as it applies to My Reality through My experience.

I OWN My beliefs, experiences, and perspectives.  I share them as a public resource.

As Antonio Porchia said:

I know what I have given you; I do not know what you have received.

Domme vs. “dumme”
How to tell the difference between Quality Dominants and confused folks…

  • Safety Tips For Dommes
    A public service to Dommes and Women everywhere and I encourage Us all to share these precautions with the younger generations.

submissive vs. substandard
How to tell the difference between those who honor the Art of Service and “do-me-sleazebags.”

Fetish vs. Kink (The Difference Between Fetish & Kink)
I devised the term, “fakers-shakers-takers-noise-makers” to refer to “time-wasters” who are part of the confusion of the mainstream’s foray into The Scene. Knowing the signs of “wasters” prevents acts of vampirism on Our precious energies.

What Is ClassicFetish™?ClassicFetish™ is the appreciation of the passion of power-at-play (power creatively expressed in various forms of presentation).  This appreciation is demonstrated by your expression of the best inside of you, which you share with the utmost respect for the Players in the Scene.

The Importance of Rituals & Protocol
When it comes to having BetterFetish™, rituals is a HUGE part of what makes the event special; separate from everyday experiences. For example, think of how you felt hearing people sing Happy Birthday to you when you were a child.  The Scene Protocols are Our rituals of celebrating Our Lifestyles along with basic respect for self and others.

My Philosophy of FetishThe growing misconceptions of Fetish in the public view is perpetuated by those who always seek to exploit Art for the sake of financial gain.  Unfortunately, what was once a sensual discipline has become widely “sexploited.”  I believe in believes in Fetish as Therapeutic Art.

How To Present yourself To A Mistress ~ A Fetish Etiquette Primer for Dominants and submissives.  A great resource to strengthen and enhance your relationships.


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Being a Lifestyle Dominant for Her entire life, Mss Didi* has explored various aspects of the BDSM and D/s Scenes including 24/7 relationships, slave ownership, Professional Domination (before it became synonymous with “hoochies with whips) and Fetish Event Planning. Mss Didi* has benefited from an extensive education in the functions of the human body and psyche, holds a Master’s Degree in Rehabilitation Therapy and is currently working on Her PhD.

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