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Comfy Shoes

August 19, 2012

Q: Dear Mistress Didi,

You’re a shoe fetishist. What’s the best way to make these gorgeous shoes comfortable to wear??

Thank You, Ouchie Feet


Dear Ouchie Feet,

Quickest Fix I know:

Rinse Hot Water around and inside the shoes and wear them with bare feet for at least half an hour to allow the shoes to take the shape of your feet as you walk. When the shoes feel more comfortable, remove and allow to air-dry. Repeat if necessary. This works best with leather shoes, but can also work with some synthetics.

CAUTION: Be careful not to drown or damage the fabric of the shoes. Use care and common sense when applying hot water.

There is also a product that comes in a little, red bottle called “Shoe Magic” that can be purchased at most shoe repair places. Follow instructions on the bottle.

While I’m giving advice, enjoy My Complimentary GoddessGlide™: How To Walk In High Heels Video.

Always MY Pleasure,
Mss Didi*


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Being a Lifestyle Dominant for Her entire life, Mss Didi* has explored various aspects of the BDSM and D/s Scenes including 24/7 relationships, slave ownership, Professional Domination (before it became synonymous with “hoochies with whips) and Fetish Event Planning.  Mss Didi* has benefited from an extensive education in the functions of the human body and psyche, holds a Master’s Degree in Rehabilitation Therapy and is currently working on Her PhD.  As well as being the Founder of The Fetish League, Mss Didi* is a Model, Speaker, Author, Fetish Facilitator, Certified Hypnotherapist, Certified Psychotherapist, Certified Nutritionist, Certified Aromatherapist, and a graduate of The Institute of Culinary Arts with a specialty in vegetarian cooking.  In Her* quest to change the public’s negative view of Fetish to a positive understanding of Fetish as Therapeutic Art, Mss Didi* promotes Fetish Appreciation through Her workshops, performances, and ClassicFetish™ Events.  She* believes that the goal of the Dominant-submissive relationship is self-evolution for both to grow towards becoming the best that W/we can be as individuals, to each other, and to The Whole.