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Warning: This year’s stalker…

Special Note

June 5, 2013

This note was written to assist a person who was dismissed from My Domain for (1) increasingly aggressive behavior, (2) over-stepping boundaries with My Guests and Friends; and (3) endangering My well-being while disobeying medical and legal rules on his driving abilities, to move on with his life in a positive manner and to cease and desist all threats, stalking, harassment (including of My assistants and associates), and attempts to disrupt anything else in My Domain before he destroys his family’s life and future.


Here’s why I have such extensive security measures for ALL of My Events:

One of the annoyances of extending invitations to the public is having to vet undesireables.

There is always some creature who refuses to take responsibility for his bad behavior being the reason he was ejected from My Domain and not wanted by the people who associate and party with Me.

These types of people were that ugly kid on the playground that no one liked because he was too busy trying to force what he wanted on everyone else and didn’t ever want to learn how to “play nice.” So, when people rejected him for being creepy, a liar, a cheat, a manipulator, etc., he maintained (and still does as an adult) that everyone else is wrong to OFFEND him with ostracization.

I have always felt sorry for the ugly-little-kids and, obviously, STILL have not learned that by giving them a chance to be cool, that they will not choose to evolve. These are damaged creatures who “bite the hand that feeds them” and only desire to destroy because they don’t feel they are worthy of love in any of its forms. And they do everything possible to refuse your kindness to prove that point!

So, this year’s ugly-little-kid is doing:

  • the stalking thing;
  • the typical attempting-to-defame-Me thing;
  • the making-up-profiles-on-fetlife-to-attempt-to-taunt-Me thing (poor creature even has them giving him compliments);
  • the projecting-his-behaviors-onto-Me-thing;
  • the believing-there’s-a-conspiracy-against-him thing;
  • the attempting-to-pit-My-friends-and-other-women-against-Me thing;
  • the harassing-My-assistants thing;
  • the texting-and-emailing-Me thing;

– all the usual loser-fare that all the other losers before him have tried to do. they are never original.

And this one refuses to accept that there was a computer glitch – though knowing of My device problems – and an error occurred – the message wasn’t for or about him (but sociopathic narcissists always believe -everything- is about them). Nor will the creature accept the apology I made privately and publicly – as if anyone is even paying attention to him – which is ultimately his problem.

The sad thing is that these pathetic creatures are so insistent on making Me/you/everyone wrong for their choices to be immature, badly behaved, and their refusal to accept personal responsibility that they abuse and ENDANGER their own families. That’s how their children become drug addicts, alcoholics, victims of others’ abuses, commit suicide, etc.

The internet is a wonderful thing. I, for one, am glad that every movement you make is tracked by Big Brother and I’m voting for this practice to continue.

I’m also ecstatic that I have friends in high places who have taken steps to stop previous stalkers and are observing physically as well as electronically.

Hopefully, the offender will not be seen anywhere near Me and Mine again, or I will not be able to continue to protect him from My scary friends… even if I wanted to.

I really hope that this one – and all of the others – finally get the professional care that will help them to evolve to contribute something of beauty to the world and not waste their lives h8ting themselves. Because their self-h8tred IS the impetus for all of their behaviors.

Always MY Pleasure,
Mistress Didi*


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Being a Lifestyle Dominant for Her entire life, Mss Didi* has explored various aspects of the BDSM and D/s Scenes including 24/7 relationships, slave ownership, Professional Domination (before it became synonymous with “hoochies with whips) and Fetish Event Planning.  Mss Didi* has benefited from an extensive education in the functions of the human body and psyche, holds a Master’s Degree in Rehabilitation Therapy and is currently working on Her PhD.

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